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Most vulva owners need external stimulation to orgasm, but is it actually true?

Disclaimer that this is based on my experience only. Literally just speculating. Also, this is in no way sponsored, I just love Bellesa...

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Ask Alexa: I feel like I’m dry as the Sahara down there, even when I am super turned on

Dear Alexa, How do I cope with vaginal dryness whilst navigating sex? Since being on about a million types of contraception I feel like...

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Ask Alexa: how do I know if I’m straight or bisexual?

Dear Alexa, I’m 22 and currently in a very long relationship with my boyfriend and I love him very much. However, in the past six months...

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The thing about "lasting longer" in bed

Think about something else! Distract yourself from the feeling! Do anything to delay ejaculating so soon! Does that sound familiar?...

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Why penis size should be the least of your worries

One of the questions we -sex educators/therapists - get asked the most is if penis size actually matters. I won't come on here and tell...

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Ask Alexa: Every time I have sex I just don't enjoy it, is this normal?

Dear Alexa, I'm a bit confused and I need some help. Every time I have sex I just don't enjoy it, is this normal? I've had different...

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The Benefits of Period Sex: Why You Should Embrace Your Menstruation

When it comes to period sex, there are a lot of mixed opinions. There's some truth to every argument out there, but none of them have to...

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The Art of Self Exploration: Discovering Your Body through Masturbation

Learn how self exploration and masturbation can help you improve your relationship with your body, enhance your sexual experiences, and more