Exploring the Red Light District: A Sexologist's Insight into Amsterdam's Famous Neighborhood
Explore Amsterdam's Red Light District from a different perspective, looking at the culture, sexuality, and power dynamics involved.
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When someone you know gets accused of rape
Let's normalize reactions and emotions you might face when someone you know gets accused of rape, based on my own personal experience.
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My First Experience with an STI - A clap on the back for me
So, I have been writing these style of blogs for Sex with Alexa to share a personal experience of my growth with my sex life in hopes...
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Ask Alexa: How do I know if I have had an orgasm?
Hi I just started masturbating last year, from time to time. However, I don’t know how if I really orgasmed or even how to have one. I...
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My First Sex Toy Experience - I Came, I Saw Stars & I Conquered
So with Google’s incognito mode on my mobile - scared that I’d be traced for the secrets I was trying to uncover - I researched things I tho
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11 facts you might not know about mutual masturbation
Relationships need time and effort in order to work. They won't magically be amazing and problem-free. Same goes for sex. Yes, sometimes...
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Sephora is selling sex toys and it's a huge deal
Over the last few months I realized that the sex toy brand, Smile Makers is now available at Sephora, which was already a big deal. And...
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No, unfollowing an abuser is not enough
I am not a big fan of sports. This is also not the kind of blog I usually post. But when my partner told me that a Manchester United...
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Valentine's Day Gift Guide: by yours truly
I have lots of opinions about Valentine's Day and don't even celebrate myself personally. Still, I think if you look at the positive side...
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Ask Alexa: I've tried everything and have never had an orgasm
Dear Alexa, I have tried and tried to orgasm by any means necessary to no avail. My partner is open to explore and seems to take it as a...
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You asked me questions about my sex toys, here are the answers
Ask anything about my sex toys! Products I mention: Osé, Baci by Lora DiCarlo, Buzzfeed by Bellesa, Tenga, LeWand, JeJoue, etc
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Does body count really matter? A personal experience
More often than not I lie about my body count. And now that I’ve started dating again I’ve been very anxious about how many more people my n
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Facebook (or Meta, I guess) is literally against sexual pleasure
Fuck you, Meta. Now that I got that off my chest. Let me tell you the deets. My website editor told me to pay for some Facebook Ads and I...
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Most vulva owners need external stimulation to orgasm, but is it actually true?
Disclaimer that this is based on my experience only. Literally just speculating. Also, this is in no way sponsored, I just love Bellesa...
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Ask Alexa: I feel like I’m dry as the Sahara down there, even when I am super turned on
Dear Alexa, How do I cope with vaginal dryness whilst navigating sex? Since being on about a million types of contraception I feel like...
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