Behind the Curtain: My Adventure at an Amsterdam Sex Show
So I went to a live sex show. I felt like it was my duty as a first time visitor and sexologist. I bought tickets for 5PM because the red...
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Amsterdam's Gay Culture and Public Sex: Navigating the Legal Cruising Spaces
Discover the legal cruising spaces in Amsterdam's gay culture and learn how to safely navigate the public sex scene.
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Exploring the Red Light District: A Sexologist's Insight into Amsterdam's Famous Neighborhood
Explore Amsterdam's Red Light District from a different perspective, looking at the culture, sexuality, and power dynamics involved.
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When someone you know gets accused of rape
Let's normalize reactions and emotions you might face when someone you know gets accused of rape, based on my own personal experience.
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My First Experience with an STI - A clap on the back for me
So, I have been writing these style of blogs for Sex with Alexa to share a personal experience of my growth with my sex life in hopes...
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Ask Alexa: How do I know if I have had an orgasm?
Hi I just started masturbating last year, from time to time. However, I don’t know how if I really orgasmed or even how to have one. I...
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How My First Sex Toy Helped Me Overcome Low Libido and Find Sexual Empowerment
So with Google’s incognito mode on my mobile - scared that I’d be traced for the secrets I was trying to uncover - I researched things I tho
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11 facts you might not know about mutual masturbation
Relationships need time and effort in order to work. They won't magically be amazing and problem-free. Same goes for sex. Yes, sometimes...
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Sephora Adds Sex Toys to its Shelves - Why It's a Big Deal for Sexual Wellness
Over the last few months I realized that the sex toy brand, Smile Makers is now available at Sephora, which was already a big deal. And...
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Why Soccer Players Need to Speak Up About Domestic Abuse and Rape
I am not a big fan of sports. This is also not the kind of blog I usually post. But when my partner told me that a Manchester United...
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Valentine's Day Gift Guide: The Ultimate List of Sex Toys and Other Pleasure Products
I have lots of opinions about Valentine's Day and don't even celebrate myself personally. Still, I think if you look at the positive side...
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Ask Alexa: I've tried everything and have never had an orgasm
Dear Alexa, I have tried and tried to orgasm by any means necessary to no avail. My partner is open to explore and seems to take it as a...
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My Honest Review of Sex Toys: From Luxury Brands to Budget Picks
Ask anything about my sex toys! Products I mention: Osé, Baci by Lora DiCarlo, Buzzfeed by Bellesa, Tenga, LeWand, JeJoue, etc
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Does body count really matter? A personal experience
More often than not I lie about my body count. And now that I’ve started dating again I’ve been very anxious about how many more people my n
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The Flaws in Facebook's Advertising Policies: A Sex Educator's Perspective
Fuck you, Meta. Now that I got that off my chest. Let me tell you the deets. My website editor told me to pay for some Facebook Ads and I...
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